Why is it so hard to forget a love that is already over? So many people in the world break up and have problems trying to forget the one they love... Is it because they have fallen to deep into it, or is it because they have put in everything only to see it break apart after all the effort, or is it because they cant find a reason to forget...
i know how it feels because i have been through this before and im still on this path... my friends around me are also suffering from being unable to forget the one they love after the split... a fren of mine broke up with his gf last month after being together for 9months, and when he learnt that she is about to get together with another guy after less than a month, he is totally in shock... he cant believe that his ex-girlfriend managed to find another guy within a month... another fren of mine, she has already split with her ex-boyfriend for almost 9months, but until now she still cant forget him... as for me, its almost 5months since we split and she has found a new love, but i still cant forget my ex...
despite all the things that we have done to try to forget the past, i realised that the harder that we try to forget, the harder it is for us to forget... learning to live with the pain might actually prove to be more useful than trying to forget... accepting the fact that it is over, might actually help us to move on in life... it may not be easy since talking is easier than taking action, but if we do not give it a try to move on, we will forever be stuck in that situation... take a chance to move on and we may find that moving on is not that hard after all... when u learn to fall in love again, u will be able to forget about the past and start looking towards the future...
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